"Marc Phillips" wrote in message

Exactly, Scott, and thank you for your sentiments. Just to give you
an idea of how Arny thinks, if I did supply an obituary, there is no
way I could link it to myself. Arny would merely say, "Where is the
proof that this is your mother-in-law?"

In fact Marc, obituaries often contain the names of sons & daughters in-law.

So, I guess you have to invent another lie to cover your tracks.