"MINe 109" wrote in message
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You missed the suggestion on another forum that you don't
really know
what your instrument sounds like.

This is true for many instruments and the voice. Compared to
what the audience hears, the musican hears a highly
distorted version of the music he makes.

and can rely on audience response to develop your tone
and interpretation.

I would think that one learns that from one's teachers and
cohorts.