dave weil said:

Of course, the downside to that is that he tends to be rather aloof,
which is OK with me. He takes affection on his own terms and doesn't
deign to come when called unless HE wills it.


That goes without saying.
If your cat would behave any different, it'd be a dog.

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Sander de Waal
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