February 19th 08, 04:19 AM
Aside from the amusing stories we hear or see from the entertainment
industry, many people often wonder if blind dates really work.
Although I don't have an answer that is loaded down with statistics
and polls, I offer something different- a common sense point of view.
Most of us meet many potential mates through friends at parties,
clubs, restaurants and various other places. It seems to be the
natural progression of human nature. We are friends with someone
because we both have qualities that appeal to the other. They have
other friends for the same exact reason. It seems to be a logical
assumption that a 'friend of a friend' would be a wise choice to
consider dating. The same would apply to a blind date- a 'friend of a
friend' whom we haven't met yet through chance.
Friends and family are the most likely to attempt the blind date for a
single person. Those who know us best always seem to approach the
blind date proposal with something like, "You know who would be
perfect for you?" It's a great start for a single person to find a
partner. As far as what we like and are attracted to in a friend can
definitely be found this way.
The downside to this process is one that can be the most frustrating.
No one can interpret 'chemistry' between two people on any level
except for the individuals themselves. Friends or family can make a
guess based on who you have dated in the past, but there is no clear
definition of what any one of us finds as far as the ultimate
attraction.
When you walk into a bar or club, you know what is appealing to you.
You are aware of the 'hottie' you've made eye contact with since the
minute you walked in the room. Unfortunately after speaking with him
or her, you might find that initial attraction has dissolved
http://www.dontplayplay.com/html/Dating/20060925/9864.html
industry, many people often wonder if blind dates really work.
Although I don't have an answer that is loaded down with statistics
and polls, I offer something different- a common sense point of view.
Most of us meet many potential mates through friends at parties,
clubs, restaurants and various other places. It seems to be the
natural progression of human nature. We are friends with someone
because we both have qualities that appeal to the other. They have
other friends for the same exact reason. It seems to be a logical
assumption that a 'friend of a friend' would be a wise choice to
consider dating. The same would apply to a blind date- a 'friend of a
friend' whom we haven't met yet through chance.
Friends and family are the most likely to attempt the blind date for a
single person. Those who know us best always seem to approach the
blind date proposal with something like, "You know who would be
perfect for you?" It's a great start for a single person to find a
partner. As far as what we like and are attracted to in a friend can
definitely be found this way.
The downside to this process is one that can be the most frustrating.
No one can interpret 'chemistry' between two people on any level
except for the individuals themselves. Friends or family can make a
guess based on who you have dated in the past, but there is no clear
definition of what any one of us finds as far as the ultimate
attraction.
When you walk into a bar or club, you know what is appealing to you.
You are aware of the 'hottie' you've made eye contact with since the
minute you walked in the room. Unfortunately after speaking with him
or her, you might find that initial attraction has dissolved
http://www.dontplayplay.com/html/Dating/20060925/9864.html